After quite a long while of struggling with decisions—not so small ones, either—some hints to the truth have slowly become uncovered. Over the last few days, some things have slowly come into realization.
“At the end of the day, you are the one you have to live with.”
So why does it matter what other people think? In reality, it doesn’t. Think about it. You are the one living your life, and what’s the point if everyone around you is happy and you aren’t? It is so tempting to try and please everyone. Naturally, people want to feel accepted and want to be liked by others.
Well, you know what?
If people don’t like what you do, it is their problem, not yours.
If people aren’t happy with your decisions even though they make you perfectly happy, it is their problem, not yours.
If people judge you because you’ve found your niche, your passion, or someone to share it with, it is their problem, not yours.
Call me selfish, but I’ve learned that really, you have to do what is best for you. You’re the one who deals with your mind, your thoughts, your inner self. You live with you and everything about you.
Do what you love, be with someone who makes you happy, strive for the best, and most importantly: Be you.
“At the end of the day, you are the one you have to live with.”
Well, you know what?
If people don’t like what you do, it is their problem, not yours.
If people aren’t happy with your decisions even though they make you perfectly happy, it is their problem, not yours.
If people judge you because you’ve found your niche, your passion, or someone to share it with, it is their problem, not yours.
Call me selfish, but I’ve learned that really, you have to do what is best for you. You’re the one who deals with your mind, your thoughts, your inner self. You live with you and everything about you.
Do what you love, be with someone who makes you happy, strive for the best, and most importantly: Be you.
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